Thursday, February 14, 2008

V-day is For LOSERS



I feel like my outfit is OVERLY trendy. I was late for work and had nothing else to wear. Eh. What do you think? HONESTLY.

Headband: F21
Scarf: Mother's
Shirt: Target;Mossimo
Vest: Bitten by SJP
Skirt: Macy's;Rewind
Leggings: Joyce Leslie
Boots: Guess?


Why the mean title you ask? Well, I'm sorry. I'm bitter. I've been bitter about Valentine's Day since, mmm, forever. I'm currently 19 and my last relationship was in 8th grade, and even then I was pressured by my friends to go out with him, even though I had no interests in him what so ever. So technically I've never, ever, had a real relationship.

I tend to scare guys; I'm overly independant and ridiculously blunt when it comes to men getting involved with me. I do way too many things for my own good, and it's hard to find a guy who will be willing to be half way down my current priority list. I plan to be very, very successful in my future, and my potential future boyfriend/husband will have to realize that. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about supporting my man as well, but I'm young, and currently it's all about getting my life straight. Plus, I'm abstinent. If that really means anything, I don't know. It shouldn't.

I'd rather be blowing cash on some Loubous than some damn card or gift for that special guy. Sad isn't it?

Well, I love being single, so SUCK ON THAT CUPID!

†Secretista
at

26 comments:

  1. EvaAmarriFebruary 14, 2008 at 9:33 PM

    Thanks for visiting. Wanna link?

    ReplyDelete
  2. DebbieFebruary 15, 2008 at 12:42 AM

    Honestly... I think its not overly trendy. I think the vest adds a nice touch! Not to mention the boots.

    ReplyDelete
  3. AnonymousFebruary 15, 2008 at 1:25 AM

    Trendy schmendy - who cares...it looks fabulous on you! (PS Love the Pipettes song)

    ReplyDelete
  4. etoilee8February 15, 2008 at 3:27 AM

    I don't think it's overly trendy. . .but I have to remind myself, that although they're so warm, sometimes it's nice to switch the boots for some cute flats. . . for sake of changing it up a bit. Don't feel bad about the relationship thing. I'm in my mid twenties and my relationships have been minimal. And I'm finally kind of okay with that, oddly enough. Atleast you figured that out way earlier than me!

    ReplyDelete
  5. AdeleFebruary 15, 2008 at 7:19 AM

    haha iam exactly the same!
    as you said on my blog
    DOWN WITH V-DAY
    lol i quite like the outfit! i love the skirt with the red and the waist coat :)

    ReplyDelete
  6. NonchalantModFebruary 15, 2008 at 11:55 AM

    Hoorah

    ReplyDelete
  7. Kira AderneFebruary 15, 2008 at 12:04 PM

    the looks is great, but i would chance the jeans skirt for a black skirt...and i would wear a purse in leather but with another colour....different of red...

    a kiss

    KIra

    ReplyDelete
  8. Nuvany Nice` All things Indie Fashion, Art, Giveaways support inide artistsFebruary 15, 2008 at 1:18 PM

    hey secretista,

    you so are my sister from another mother! ay I so wish I could use profanity but im not going to, you just fill in the blank...you better werk it ____ sneakin into a MARC JACOBS SHOW i'm screaming hystercially right now:)! Oh my gosh I so thought I was the only one that staked out shows in the city...you have to see me sometimes looking really homely but..I actually stood there and watched these guys strategically sneak into a ralph lauren show, if only I had the guts...we've gotta link up i'm right over the hudson :)! sorry this post has turned into an email...i'm just so happy that I stumbled upon your blog :)...please drop me a line when you get a chance

    peace
    ebony
    www.nuvany-nice.com

    ReplyDelete
  9. hannahFebruary 15, 2008 at 1:25 PM

    i really love that ensemble. i love the vest, shirt, scarf combo.

    im glad to see im not the only one who doesnt go crazy for valentines day.

    peace

    ReplyDelete
  10. SICK.February 15, 2008 at 11:54 PM

    hah, i'd rather drop my cash on gorgey shoes than on a boy too.

    + i like the outfit !

    x.
    jh

    ReplyDelete
  11. Ella GregoryFebruary 16, 2008 at 1:56 PM

    I know what you mean, I'm really independant too, and I like to do things when I want to and in my own way so most of the time I find guys get in the way
    your not a fire sign too are you? hahaha

    ReplyDelete
  12. Jaiden Jeremy JamesFebruary 16, 2008 at 8:55 PM

    effortlessly kool

    ReplyDelete
  13. Jaiden Jeremy JamesFebruary 16, 2008 at 8:55 PM

    effortlessly kool

    ReplyDelete
  14. kokostilettoFebruary 16, 2008 at 10:35 PM

    don't worry you are still so young - you def should be glad you don't have a BF! Your time is more precious than hanging out with a man trying to make him happy!

    and i love your outfit!

    ReplyDelete
  15. GloriaFebruary 16, 2008 at 11:28 PM

    most def...representin! :)

    i go to college in cali tho

    ReplyDelete
  16. AsianCajunsFebruary 17, 2008 at 12:39 PM

    Love the outfit. And I agree with the others, you're young - nows not the time to get bogged down in a relationship.

    ReplyDelete
  17. JillFebruary 17, 2008 at 12:57 PM

    I have to admit I'd prefer a darker wash denim skirt with this outfit, but I still like it generally, & hey I'm single and loving it, so unite!

    ReplyDelete
  18. Kira AderneFebruary 17, 2008 at 6:39 PM

    hey girl!


    a kiss for you]
    thanks for passing!


    your pics are so cool and funny, you must be a great person!

    ,more kisses

    ReplyDelete
  19. Jen (MahaloFashion)February 17, 2008 at 10:10 PM

    "suck on that cupid" hahahha
    you make me laugh
    i always look forward to your pictures and today is no exception!

    ReplyDelete
  20. MashFebruary 18, 2008 at 4:39 AM

    I don't like the Valentines day too because I'm alone lol but I'm not sad after all it's life heh :) Love your outfit and your headband <3

    ReplyDelete
  21. Practically Perfect In Every WayFebruary 18, 2008 at 9:44 PM

    "suck on that cupid" ! i'm rolling on the ground!!!

    outfit is hot, and how do you take pictures of your self in mid air???

    i taught my two year old to call boys: stinky boys.... just go with that!

    ReplyDelete
  22. MichelleFebruary 19, 2008 at 11:28 AM

    your outfit is gorge! And the cupid comment is so funny.

    ReplyDelete
  23. Life's a WardrobeFebruary 19, 2008 at 12:49 PM

    Love the outfit!

    ReplyDelete
  24. Life's a WardrobeFebruary 19, 2008 at 12:49 PM

    Love the outfit!

    ReplyDelete
  25. GracieFebruary 24, 2008 at 12:46 PM

    I think that the outfit looks good on you, but I know I couldn't pull it off!!!

    ReplyDelete
  26. Jaiden_JamesMarch 8, 2010 at 12:44 AM

    effortlessly kool

    ReplyDelete