Sunday, October 5, 2008

Sexy Time

As you can see, I have been M.I.A. for quite sometime. May be my absence was only for a week and a half, but in blog-time that's a long period! I'm still on the college freight train and blogging has been on the back burner (sorry). Being part student, part RA, and part magazine intern is so time consuming, but awesome.

Last week I only had two and a half days of classes because of the Jewish holiday, so the RAs and I went out for some staff bonding and sex was the topic for almost the whole night. This got me thinking. The youth of today live in such a sexually driven world. If you're wondering what my view on sex is well, all I have for you is one word: abstinence. Yup, that's right. I'm abstaining from sex until marriage. I often get asked, "How are you ever going to be able to withstand from sex until marriage," but I honestly never find myself in that position--literally (haha)--where I'm questioning whether I should or shouldn't. And as for why I'm abstinent, well, I have many reasons but my number one is pregnancy. Abstinence is the only 100% way to prevent pregnancy. I love, love children and can't wait to have a little pack of mini-Secretistas, but I think having a child too early on in my life may hinder me from my career aspirations. But if you must, make sure you protect yourself!

Anyway, the other day at my internship a fellow intern was talking about Tom Ford and how good looking she thought he was. I had no idea what he looked like so I quickly Googled him and then I instantly remembered who he was--because of his ads. I'm not exactly sure what to make of them, but one thing I am sure is that they are overtly sexual. I'm only posting one picture, but I suggest you Google Tom Ford and click images.

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Tell me what you think.

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9 comments:

  1. ElizabethOctober 5, 2008 at 7:34 PM

    Good for you, for being true to yourself.

    I'm not a big fan of Ford's ads, I think they're unnecessarily OTT, but that's just me.

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  2. SiruOctober 6, 2008 at 5:41 AM

    Well, Tom Ford is the guy who maid Sex as famous as it is. I don't mind the heat.

    juliet xxx

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  3. AnonymousOctober 6, 2008 at 8:37 AM

    Meh, I'm not a Tom Ford fan, but each to their own I guess!

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  5. la petite fashionistaOctober 6, 2008 at 2:54 PM

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  6. la petite fashionistaOctober 6, 2008 at 3:01 PM

    i think tom ford's a pretty attractive guy & they do say sex sells.. but there are so many other designers that gain success and don't have to resort to that

    kudos for being true to yourself!

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  7. UnknownOctober 6, 2008 at 11:43 PM

    Good for you! It's good to know who you are and stick to it.

    and a week is a like a month in blog years lol. and lucky you...I applied to be an RA on campus but didn't get it =( lol

    Tom Ford's a cutie I'm not gonna lie lol

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  8. e. jayOctober 7, 2008 at 1:41 AM

    Tom Ford is pretty hot, but yes, his ads ooze sex, in some pretty raunchy ways. Have you seen the cologne ad where it's placed strategically in the model's no-no area?

    Abstinence is great, especially if you don't judge those who choose a different path. I am accidentally abstinent myself. It's just never really come up as an issue, so I haven't really had to think about it.

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  9. kokostilettoOctober 11, 2008 at 2:09 PM

    wow i totally look up to you!!

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